Are you the kind of person who can strike up a conversation with anyone? Maybe you feel refreshed and invigorated after a day spent socialising and talking to strangers. Or maybe you are a great listener – a natural when it comes to empathising and connecting with others?
If so, you're a ‘people person’, which means you naturally have people skills, which happen to be in high demand. As AI takes on more technical and repetitive work, employers are placing even greater value on the interpersonal skills that technology can't easily replicate.
Most people enjoy spending time with others in some way or another– so what makes someone a ‘people person’? There are two defining characteristics, says Leah Lambart, Career Coach and Founder of Relaunch Me.
“The first is having an interest in helping people, connecting and building relationships,” she says. “The second is that you feel energised by spending time with people; this is particularly relevant for jobs where you have to engage and meet new people all the time.”
You don’t have to be an extrovert. Many introverts do well in people-facing roles if they’re interested in helping and connecting with others. They also tend to have better listening skills than extroverts, says Lambart.
The main skills important to connecting with others are known as ‘power skills’, although they are also called ‘soft skills’. “Recruiters now call them the power skills because they’re the skills that become more important for people to have sustainable careers,” says Lambart.
These include communication, active listening, empathy, relationship building, emotional intelligence and collaboration.
If you’re not sure which skills you’re strong in, Lambart suggests asking your family, friends or colleagues. “Often we don’t see skills or strengths in ourselves,” she says. “Ask others questions such as ‘When do you see me at my best?’, ‘When do you see me most confident?’, ‘What skills or strengths do I bring to the team?’”
If you consider yourself a people person, there is a broad range of careers that make use of these skills. Lambart says these can be grouped into two categories.
If you’re more extroverted, and enjoy connecting with and talking to people, consider roles such as:
If you’re more interested in listening to and helping people, she suggests paths like:
However, these are just the start. “Some might prefer to work with and help people in a more practical way, such as helping someone move house, building something for their home, or finding a solution to a problem,” says Lambart.
Think about how you can play to your strengths. “When you’re playing to your strengths, work shouldn’t feel so hard,” says Lambart. “It comes more naturally, makes you feel more energised and less stressed, so people are usually much more successful.”
Working in a role misaligned with your strengths might feel fine for a while, but over time you’re more likely to feel exhausted or burnt out. “It’s all about finding what’s sustainable for you,” adds Lambart.
People skills are becoming more in demand. While skills such as communication, empathy and collaboration have always been important, AI is changing the mix of skills employers look for. As routine tasks become more automated, people who can communicate effectively, build trust and work well with others are likely to have an advantage.
While communication skills and empathy are natural traits, you can absolutely work on these and other people-related skills if you feel they’re lacking, says Lambart.
She suggests finding someone at work – a mentor, manager or teammate – who excels in these skills. “Observe how they go about it and ask them how they approach those interactions,” she says.
There are also plenty of resources online, such as short courses and free tutorials that can give you the tools to strengthen your listening and communication skills.
Being a people person is a genuine professional advantage. Your ability to relate to strangers and your desire to help others are some of the most valuable skills for a successful career.